In today’s competitive world of college admissions, there’s a constant buzz about “profile building” to make your college applications shine. Why are we so fixated on these applications, and what exactly is profile building?
Let’s take a step back and redefine “profile building.”
Profile building, in the context of college admissions, means students try hard to make themselves look ‘really good’ on their college applications through their extra-curricular activities so they have a better chance of getting accepted into their dream college.
This makes us believe that the sole purpose of profile building is to get admission into colleges.
Now, instead of viewing profile building solely as a means to an end, let’s consider it as an extension of our children’s passions and hobbies. In other words, let’s shift our perspective from seeing it merely as a strategy to gain admission to thinking of it as an opportunity to nurture our children’s passions and hobbies, enabling them to flourish in an environment they genuinely cherish.
Profile building should not be about doing what ‘looks good’ on applications; it should be about nurturing what truly interests our children. When young minds follow their passions and explore what genuinely interests them, they not only work harder but also work with genuine enthusiasm. Unbelievably, their results are profound.
So, here’s the idea—why not start cultivating hobbies in our children from an early age? Just as we prioritize academics, we should equally focus on hobby development, helping our kids discover their interests.
Engaging in hobbies, whether it’s painting, playing a musical instrument, or pursuing sports allows children to learn new skills, develop patience, and build self-confidence. Balancing academics and hobbies teaches children to prioritize tasks, set goals, and allocate time effectively – essential skills that will serve them well in the future.
Every child is different, and their interests may vary greatly. As parents, it’s essential to pay close attention to what truly sparks our child’s curiosity and then fan the flames of these interests. It’s not necessarily about finding a hobby that our children can excel in, but rather about finding something that they truly enjoy. We should encourage them to explore their interests and make mistakes along the way. Ultimately, this will help them develop a strong sense of self-worth and self-confidence.
Let’s focus on helping them develop their interests, instead of pressuring them to fit into the mould of an ideal candidate.
Let’s allow them to explore their creative pursuits and passions without judgment.
Let’s help them find what makes them unique and special.
Hobbies and passions aren’t hindrances to academic success; they are catalysts that ignite a child’s full potential and enhance their overall growth.
Thus, don’t fall into the trap of making your child study all day long. Instead, help them to strike a balance between studies and hobbies.
Remember, hobbies are a child’s best friend, forever by their side.
